Over the last few months, I know I haven’t written much about fertility or trying to conceive much, but, I am happy to break the ice with an interview I recently completed with actress Elizabeth Higgins Clark.  

Elizabeth Higgins Clark (EHC), just like I did last year, right before my 30th birthday had goals, and one of them was to take charge of her fertility by freezing her eggs.  Freezing ones’ eggs gives a woman the best chance of having
a baby when her life is ready and Elizabeth is a leading outspoken advocate to
educate young women everywhere about the vast and important benefits of egg
freezing in your twenties.

Read my interview with Elizabeth Higgins Clark to gain more insight into her reasons behind freezing her eggs, along with her options for the future since freezing them.


BATB: Since you stated that
at 32, you are no longer able to donate eggs, what advice do you give to
someone who has missed that mark?

EHC: The cut off to be an egg donor in the US is 32.  That
doesn’t mean that your eggs are “bad” at 32.  It just is
indicative of which ages you’re more likely to produce prime eggs.  I’m
grateful to have come across that information while I was still in my 20’s and
hope that all women will be exposed to these facts and statistics while they
still have time to explore all of their options.
BATB: There are people who
think that preserving your eggs just to focus on your career is selfish. What
do you have to say to people with that particular opinion?

EHC: I don’t think there is anything selfish about how and when a
woman chooses to become a mother.  Becoming a parent is the greatest
commitment you can ever make.  Some people are ready to make it earlier
than others.  But no way is “better” than others.
BATB: One of the reasons
you stated you chose to freeze your eggs was because you didn’t want to have to
constantly administer injections or experience the soreness and pain associated
with egg retrievals. There are women who are younger than you doing the same
thing, except it isn’t by choice, but because they’re infertile.  What
would you tell those women? 

EHC: I didn’t actually say that.  I said that given the
choice I would prefer to only have to go thru [sic] the egg freezing process
once.  It’s uncomfortable and very expensive.  Many women undergo
multiple rounds of freezing because if you start in your late 30’s there is a
greater chance you won’t produce a large harvest.  You’re much more likely
to only need to do it once if you start at a younger age.


I know many women who have had to go thru [sic] many rounds of IVF
and I greatly admire their strength and tenacity.   
BATB: I’m all too familiar
with the mood swings fertility drugs put you through.  How do you
manage?  What advice do you give someone to help get them through?

EHC: Well, I only went through it for a month.  And I must
say my experience was pretty mild,  at least in my opinion. You’d have to
ask my family and friends if I was particularly moody!
I think the best thing you can do is remember why you’re
doing all this.  We are undergoing these procedures because we want to be
mothers.  And that can be very calming.


BATBAlthough your end
result is having 16 eggs waiting for you, but, do you feel as though you should
go home away with more, like a baby after going through everything from
invasive doctor’s visits, injections, pain, etc.?

EHC: Nope.  I knew what I was getting into when I
started.  And frankly, the reason I froze my eggs is because I’m not ready
for a baby now.  So to go home with one wasn’t my goal. 
BATB: You also stated you
know that there is a chance the eggs you did freeze may not result in a
successful pregnancy? If that does happen, how do you think you’ll feel about
you decision then?

EHG: I’m sure I’d be quite upset about it.  But, as I’ve
said before, I’m aware that is a possibility.  I made this decision
with my eyes wide open. 
BATB: Let’s say you meet
the man of your dreams within a year or two, and you decide to or accidentally
get pregnant, what will happen with the 16 eggs you preserved? Will you
consider donating your eggs?

EHC: If I ever get to a point where I no longer need the eggs, I
would certainly consider donating them.  There are a lot of wonderful
people in the world who want to be parents.  I think egg donation can be a
great gift. 
BATB: How long are you
planning on keeping your eggs frozen? At what age do you think you’ll be ready?

EHG: You know after I had gone thru [sic] the egg freezing process, I
decided to give myself a full year off from thinking about when I will be
ready.  I froze my eggs in May of 2014, so I still have a few more months
left on that year.  So, I’m going to make good on that promise to myself
and just say “I don’t know yet.”
BATB: I know I do not want to have children passed the age of
35.  I would like to offer my children my best self, as far as my health,
and being [physically] active in their lives.  I know that passed that
age, the idea of late nights and early mornings, or running around behind a
toddler is already exhausting.

EHC: I must say that I don’t think older mothers deprive
their children of their “best selves”.  I think women are
capable of determining an appropriate time to have a baby.  Whether that
be earlier or later, as long as a parent is present, really present…I think
that’s what determines good parenting.   
BATB: At what age would you
consider using a surrogate, if at all, should your career take off later than
expected?

EHC: Again, that would depend on where I’m at physically.  I
wouldn’t put a definite age on something like that.
BATB: Fertile/Infertile,
what advice do you have for women thinking about freezing their eggs in hopes
of having a child in the future?

EHC: Know your options.  Educate yourself. We do a
pretty poor job of fertility education in this country.  Hopefully with
time that will change.

Both Facebook and Apple recently announced plans to offer
female employees elective egg freezing as a medical health benefit for women
and this is a trend that Elizabeth would like to see more companies offer.

What do you think about Elizabeth Higgins Clark’s choice to freeze her eggs in hopes of taking charge of her fertility? Would you do it?

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  • I really enjoyed this interview. I honestly never thought of freezing my eggs but after reading this article perhaps it’s time for me to do more research and look into this since I am 31. Maybe I should make a doctors appt and speak to my doc about my options. Thank you for posting.

    • Thank you! Speak with your doc for sure. And there’s a simple test they can do to determine your egg reserve by either checking your FSH levels on CD3 or AMH, which can be done during anytime of your cycle.

  • Tanica

    Thank you so much for this interview. I have been thinking more and more about freezing my eggs. Although after reading this article, I’m about to miss the cut off mark. I really wish fertility education was taught more in the US. The pressure to have a baby is so draining mentally and emotionally.

    • Your welcome. The only way you’ll learn about fertility is either through higher ed or via a specialist.

  • Audrey Ogg

    Excellent interview

  • Science amazes me. Freezing your eggs for future generations, not just for yourself is mind blowing.

  • This whole process just fascinates me to no end… the fact that you can freeze an egg, then later thaw it out and make a baby… science is awesome!